7 Wedding ideas for Wedding Night Disasters
Wedding ideas for Wedding Night:
Wedding nights aren’t always what they’re cracked
up to be. Below I am trying to explain 7 most common wedding night disaster,
but don’t worry about these disaster and don’t fear about these disaster.
It can be turned into mere inconveniences or even prevented
altogether. Without a little planning, even a sex god or goddess will be
stopped in their tracks.
If you are hoping that your wedding night goes off without a
hitch, then you are likely hoping in vain. Like weddings, there is almost
always something that could go wrong with your wedding night, whether it is
that no one bought condoms or that your incredibly thin walls are shared with
an elderly couple. The answer to overcoming these obstacles is affirmative
action… and lots of laughter.
As per my suggestion for both of you guys, share your experience
and share your emotions and feelings with each other and try play and laugh at
your own mistakes which you did before is a great way to start off your
marriage on the right foot.
In every body having lots of things that can go wrong, so let’s
discuss with each other and enjoy the great moment
A few of them and at the best solutions for overcoming your
wedding night disasters!
Important Wedding ideas For Wedding Night
Wedding ideas#1: Expecting Too Much
Your wedding is the day that symbolizes the beginning of your
beautiful life each other’s, and that’s a main reason most common peoples consider
it one of the most significant moments of their lives and you know it might
even call it is the best significant day of their whole lives, But you know in
reality it’s totally different and it’s often the most stressful.
Getting married (and dealing with a host of caterers,
bridesmaids, musicians, and relatives) is exhausting.
So better Talk about
these issues with your future spouse ahead of the wedding day when both of you
are not stressed and under pressure.
That will go a long way to understanding
and being realistic about possible problems.
Wedding ideas#2: Bad Timing
Time can be the source of another wedding night blooper. Once
you get back to the hotel from the reception, you will probably be starving.
If
you think that you should be fine because you have eaten at the reception,
think again. Even if you are not so stressed out that you can’t eat, you will
be busy hopping up and down talking to relatives, accepting congratulations,
dealing with the staff of the reception, and making yourself available for
dances, tosses, and otherwise being the center of attention.
When you get back to your room, the first thing that many
people want when they get to the hotel room is satisfying food, and room
service is a great option.
If you call for room service, however, the timing couldn’t be worse if you are engaged
in a passionate embrace when room service arrives. If you are planning on
eating in the hotel room, wait for the food to come before canoodling.
Better
yet, call ahead of time for room service so it can arrive as soon as you get to
the room.
Wedding ideas#3: Not Knowing the Hotel Details
Another bad wedding night mistake deals with the hotel room –
or the lack of a hotel room.
If you are planning on escaping from the reception
and spending the night relaxing and enjoying each other, it is important to
know exactly where you are going, and to have booked ahead to make sure that
you have a room waiting for you.
You should also know the check in times. Make
sure that if the reception ends after the last check in time, either the hotel
knows that you are coming late, or you or someone else checks in on time and
has the key.
If someone else gets your key for you, make sure that they give
that and the room number to you before leaving the reception.
Wedding ideas#4: Sharing your Hotel Information:
If someone else checks you in, make sure that it is someone
you trust to be discreet.
There is absolutely nothing that will kill the mood
faster than knowing that your family or friends are sleeping in the next room.
Point them in the direction of a different hotel and resist the urge to let
everyone know where you will be staying that night.
Privacy is ideal for the wedding night, and
the best way to get that privacy is to make sure that the ones you love are in
their own space, and you in yours.
Wedding ideas #5: No Birth Control:
Once you are finally in your private space, did you remember
to bring protection? Especially for people with no sexual experience, the
honeymoon can seem like a mystery and birth control might just not be on your
mind. If you haven’t planned ahead of time though you could have a frustrating
evening.
Talk to your doctor about contraceptive options.
For birth control on short notice, a drug store can help you
out with several different kinds of birth control, including condoms.
For other
options planned ahead of time, consider the pill, an IUD, or other methods like
the patch or the shot, all of which can be provided by the bride’s doctor.
These will need to be administered well ahead of time.
Wedding ideas#6: Painful relation:
Once you are both ready to go, pain for the bride can be a
big show-stopper. We know that it is supposed to hurt the first time, but if
the pain is intense, it can be hard for the bride to even want to continue.
Even if it isn’t your first time, sex can still be painful if you’re tense. The
key to this is patience on the part of the groom.
The groom will want to get
his new wife relaxed, comfortable, and yes, aroused. He should be sensitive to
her physical response and be prepared to pause if necessary.
You can both
snuggle and talk lovingly to each other and then start again. Both of you should be understanding to each
other’s feelings and prepared to give snuggles instead of the intense sex you
may have been anticipating. Remember, your next time will be much more fun!!
#7: Too Excited, Too Soon:
Premature ejaculation can be just as embarrassing to the guy
as being unable to take the pain of penetration is to a woman.
If you are the
bride and your man gets to the finish line a little (or a lot) early, be
patient with him (whatever you do, don’t laugh at this one).
Our advice: just
softly smile at him with sultry eyes and enjoy the exquisite moment pressed
against him.
Don’t say anything about it
unless he brings it up, in which case, just tell him how much you adore him. He
may wish to please you with his hands or mouth or just spend some time kissing
and cuddling.
Remember, it was a long
day for everyone! He’ll be ready to try
again soon in most cases and will probably make it quite a bit longer the
second time.
Getting through any wedding night disaster is all about being
comfortable. You should be comfortable with yourself enough that you don’t
become disheartened if things go wrong, and comfortable enough with your new
spouse that the two of you can laugh together.
Laugh away your troubles and
present a united front rather than allowing things to come in between the two
of you, and then your wedding night disasters will truly show themselves to be
the minor inconveniences that they really are.
